Finding your self

Some people go take a long trip to "find themselves" ... interesting concept, since, whereever you go, there you are ... Trying to find yourself is like the donkey chasing the carrot on the stick. But if you must, here is how you do it .. using the zen technique of opposites ... find yourself, by losing yourself ... lose your self ... do something that absorbs all of your attention ... and in that moment ... there you go ...